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    I need a diet that is safe for a prego?

    admin 4:01 pm on August 5, 2009 | 9 Permalink | Reply
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    lilmamaof4 asked:


    I need a “diet” that is healthy for a pregnant woman and will help me keep from gaining over the recommended 35 pounds. I am not trying to lose weight just limit how fast I put it on. Any suggestions or tips that might help? Anyone have experience with this? I tend to gain about twice the recommended weight and am terrified to gain that much again.
    I actually work at a gym and am not heavy at all when I am not pregnant. (size 4-6) I was training for a marathon when I found out I am expecting twins. I currently run about 40 miles or so a week. The past week nausea has kept me off the road completely. This is my fifth pregnancy and despite the fact I gain 70 pounds every time the doctor refuses to send me to a dietician. She feels that since I lose it so quickly (in 9-10 months of delivery) that it doesn’t really matter. It is just so miserable to be that big!

     
    • texas_angel_wattitude 6:49 am on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      My only tip is do NOT “eat for two” you only need about 200 extra calories a day in the last few months. Its not a good idea to diet while pregnant and who cares if you put on more then 35 pounds while pregnant most women do!

    • Arneb 6:30 pm on August 8, 2009 Permalink

      I agree…

      I don’t see a problem with putting on the extra weight… if I were you I’d be more afraid of my baby not getting the nutrients it needs.

      Just my personal opinion on the matter.

    • NewMom28 7:45 pm on August 11, 2009 Permalink

      I too gain weight easily and my doctor told me to stay away from ‘flour-y’ foods(bread, cake, donuts, etc). If I have to have a bread product I get whole grain. Also- no refined sugar for me, only natural sugar through fruit and etc.
      Hope that helps. GOOD LUCK and CONGRATS!

    • trblueyess 10:01 pm on August 11, 2009 Permalink

      As your Dr to schedule you an appt with the dietitian or nutritionist. They will suggest different meal plans for you.

    • iknow 8:18 am on August 13, 2009 Permalink

      Just remember to eat a lot more fruits and vegetables cut out caffeine. The other thing is you need to a prenatal and stay from fatty foods. Pick up a pregnancy approved exercise program. They have several pregnacny videos available or join a gym.

    • pppmntgrl 5:34 am on August 15, 2009 Permalink

      You doc should recommend a nutritionist, because they can be very helpful at this.
      I will say this: I ate a very good diet and exercised and I’m still up 40 pounds…so I wouldn’t have a lot of expectations.
      Stay away from the obvious stuff: sugary foods and fatty foods and salt later in pregnancy (water weight). Limit your carbs to two servings per meal and enjoy healthy low-carb snack between meals. Have lean protein and lots of fresh fruit and veggies.
      Also, exercise! I would aim to be walking a minimum of 30 mins PER DAY. If you were more active than that before, ask your doc about stepping up your exercise program. Exercise is extremely helpful for lots of pains and constipation, etc.
      Also, if you gained twice as much before and haven’t lost it yet, you shouldn’t even be thinking of 35 pounds. You’ll need to max out around 15-25 if you are already overweight, so this nutritionist is even more important.
      And don’t listen to people who tell you it’s OK to go nuts and gain tons of weight during pregnancy. You want to be healthy and happy for baby, and I think it’s great that you’re asking for advice like this.
      Gaining too much weight in pregnancy can put you at risk for health related problems later in life.

    • snoopychick78 4:53 am on August 18, 2009 Permalink

      I think you should follow a diabetic diet so that you can limit your sugars and bad carbs to keep the weight off and to prevent gestational diabetes. If you are heavy or prone to gestational diabetes, you may want to do this anyway to prevent the diabetes. It will be good for you and the baby. It is a well rounded diet and you eat three meals plus 2-3 small snacks per day every three hours, it will help regulate your blood sugar and give you and the baby enough nourishment to stay healthy.

    • moongoddess209 3:33 am on August 21, 2009 Permalink

      You have had some good suggestions but I just want to add that you should be eating at least 100 grams of protein a day. Limit carbs…I would suggest the Bradley Method Eating Plan…Check out the website below:

    • Elle 12:04 am on August 24, 2009 Permalink

      go to babyfit.com. Its free and they will give you a meal plan (with a weekly grocery list-GREAT for when baby-brain sets in) and a workout program. Its an awesome site. The food is healthy, gives you all the right nutirents and enough calories without going “overboard.” Its really easy and quick to prepare too. That was a BIG plus in my book!

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    5 week old kittens?

    admin 12:39 am on August 5, 2009 | 3 Permalink | Reply
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    NANANA asked:


    Hi everyone!

    My friend and her parents took in a couple 5 week old kittens, and they need some helpful information-I have looked for some sites that could help them, but anymore would be great-I think that they know (generally) what they’re doing, but the nerves are making them regret themselves. Thanks to anyone in advance! And main tips about their care would be really helpful too. BTW-they didn’t want to take them so young, but one of them would have been shot, and they couldn’t let that happen-they both seem to be very healthy. Oh yeah-can their nails be trimmed yet? They’re sticking their claws into people when they hold them-they’re new to the house, and they’re doing well. But they would like to know some of the information to make sure that they are doing the right stuff. Thanks!

     
    • Brad J 8:45 am on August 8, 2009 Permalink

      The cats are sticking their claws into people because their instinct tells them to. This “kneeding” motion is how they get milk to flow from their mothers.

    • GP 11:30 am on August 10, 2009 Permalink

      Have them checked out by a Vet — they might need cat milk for a while. Don’t cut their claws – just clip the tips for right now. The Vet can recommend anything else they might need- 5 weeks is really way tooooo young – but I would have taken them also with the risk of them being shot (by the way, the person with that gun needs it to backfire!).

    • kimmykr95 11:02 pm on August 12, 2009 Permalink

      is a good place to find what you need

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    It's been said that women dress to be seen by other women. Do you think that's true?

    admin 10:21 am on August 4, 2009 | 8 Permalink | Reply
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    The May Lee Show asked:


    Looking sharp is just one aspect of looking good. Diet, fitness and attitude all play a role. Log on to http://www.themayleeshow.com for some great tips.

     
    • Cute Girl 7:41 pm on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      I think woman dress to be seen by other MEN.

    • sienna of hearts 2:35 pm on August 8, 2009 Permalink

      the proof of that is in trends that don’t flatter a women’s figure. i know i’ve fallen victim to quite a few but i’m too young to dress classically all the time. very few women i’ve met dress for men, the ones that do tend to stand out for the wrong reasons & are labelled with some not-so-nice names.

      for the most part though, i think people dress for themselves. clothes can have a definite effect on the way i feel & i’m more likely to put something on that makes me feel good, not for another person’s gratification. if they happen to like it then hey, i’d be flattered.

    • Khat 1:20 am on August 11, 2009 Permalink

      its mostly true, yes.

    • msd 5:58 am on August 14, 2009 Permalink

      Well I think that maybe yes, because some girls would want to have attention by other people of them thinking that they are beautiful.

    • Redcandy 7:03 am on August 14, 2009 Permalink

      Well, yeah that is true. Sometimes I dress to impress for men, but I do it mostly for women. Envy takes over me and I want to look the best in a room full of girls.

    • Ainsey 6:49 pm on August 17, 2009 Permalink

      It really depends on the occasion, for me.

      If I’m going on a date, for example, I’ll of course dress for the man.

      However if I’m going shopping on my own for the day, I’ll most likely dress for women.

      Interesting topic.

    • Linda S 9:28 pm on August 19, 2009 Permalink

      In all my years in the fashion business I have found that women who dress well on a daily basis do it for themselves. For these women dressing well is an extension of the confidence they have in themselves, the respect they feel for themselves and a reflection of their feelings of their own inner worth. When women who don’t always dress well buy something special the time to close the transaction phrase is “I deserve to look good and I want to show the world how good I am.” When a woman who almost never wears anything than sweats or jeans and t’s puts on that perfect outfit, I can see her stand straighter, taller, she smiles brighter and her confidence level goes sky high. Suddenly she feels good about herself. At its core, that’s what fashion and dressing up is all about, looking and feeling one’s best.

      Having said that; before a woman is mature, that is, still a teen; then there’s more dressing to attract attention, and it isn’t always male attention. Adolescents try to outdo each other in almost everything, and when I see an over twenty woman dressing to out do and compete with other women, it’s often a case of arrested adolescence. Men are surprisingly low on why women dress certain ways. I have found that sexy dressing is usually done more in committed relationships, when the partner is trying to seduce a partner with whom she already has a connection.

      The phrase I learned was that women dress for themselves, do their hair for other women, and wear fragrances and perfumes for men. I have yet to see anything to really contradict this.

    • Ann S 2:07 pm on August 22, 2009 Permalink

      I dress to look and feel good for myself. I believe a lot of women dress to out do each other.

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    how do i lose weight healthy? i'd like to lose 40 lbs by fall, i refuse to take diet pills though. thank you?

    admin 2:06 am on August 4, 2009 | 7 Permalink | Reply
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    diet tips for women
    U bore me Go far far away now asked:


    i have 169 lbs to get to my low health weight. i had a baby 7 months ago. and i gained about 300 lbs during the pregnancy, i had diabetes, and until i got pregnant i worked out everyday, but then i got put on limited activity so i couldn’t work out anymore.

    i’ve never been skinny skinny, a size 8/10 is about as low as i get, and i’m fine with that, but i need to lose weight. i want to be healthy, diabetes, heart problems, high blood pressure and just about everything else runs in my family,

    i have cut out all soda. i drink a lot of water a day. now the women in my family have a history of being big, but i just went to the dr, i have no thyroid problems, she said i will prob get diabetes later on, but i’m healthy. except i’m over weight.

    here is a pic of me before i got pregnant, and then a few of me during and after the pregnant so you get an idea, i know i cut my head out of some, i don’t want the oh but you are still really pretty comments. thank you but i want to lose weight, i really have no time to work out, i walk May-Oct every year 2x a day 3/4 of a mile both times, which includes going up a long steep hill, that’s’ about it. thank you for any and all tips and advices and experiences

    me before i got pregnant a size 10
    http://i650.photobucket.com/albums/uu225/hihowyoudoing/upload4-1.jpg

    me right before i had the baby a size 28 http://i650.photobucket.com/albums/uu225/hihowyoudoing/upload6-1.jpg

    me when the baby was 2 months old http://i650.photobucket.com/albums/uu225/hihowyoudoing/uploade2.jpg

    http://i650.photobucket.com/albums/uu225/hihowyoudoing/upload2-1.jpg

    and me when the baby was 6 weeks old http://i650.photobucket.com/albums/uu225/hihowyoudoing/uploade-1.jpg

    me now size 30/32 http://i650.photobucket.com/albums/uu225/hihowyoudoing/upload3.jpg

    thank you in advance for all your advice and help and tips. have a great rest of the weekend.
    i should add i do 100 crunches every day,

    also it’s really my booty and my tummy and my arms that are big, i still have small legs, the thighs are a little larger, but the majority of my weight is from my waist up, i have linebacker shoulders my husband says, and i tummy almost as big as when i was preg, and a butt,
    oh yeah, i take prenatal vit, and iron because i’m annemic, so i do take vit now.

     
    • happyjello 7:52 am on August 7, 2009 Permalink

      have started this Diet (lifestyle change) in the middle of November at 140lbs, and now at 117lbs

      A DIET IS WHAT YOU EAT….there for we are all on a diet….
      THINK LIFESTYLE CHANGE

      You got the change the way you think and feel about food

      TRY THIS, and stick to it.

      The first 3-4 weeks are the hardest until your body adjusts to the change.
      Results will be in about the same time

      Fruits and Veggies

      Eat more plants and keep away from stuff that was made in plants.

      Don’t eat anything that comes in a can, box or package….
      …..THEY HAVE ADDITIVES IN THEM THAT MAKE YOU ADDICTED TO THE FOOD…..
      If man made it, don’t eat it

      NO white BREAD or SUGAR

      NO PIZZA, I am in the pizza business, and it is not good for you, very high in FAT and Calories

      NO FRIED FOOD…

      Stay away from FAST FOOD

      NO POP, SODA or FIZZY DRINKS

      Walk your dog, or walk a friends dog

      Don’t think of it as a diet, but think of it as a lifestyle change

      I have lost 20.5 pounds in 2 months, drink lots of water. I usually eat a meal of what ever I want once a week….controlled portion….this really works………

      Write down every thing you eat

      take a multivitamin at night

    • designergirl 12:02 am on August 8, 2009 Permalink

      weight watchers…..its the only way , it is impossible to stick to any other diet. i lost 5 stone with weight watchers by sister lost 10 we had tried everything before.

    • daisy2252 2:36 am on August 8, 2009 Permalink

      This might sound hard but try being a vegetarian. Just make sure you don’t eat too many pastas and sweets. You can get your protein through dairy products, rice, beans, and soy. Some examples for dinner: eggplant and pasta, vegetarian chili (with morning star soy crumble to replace the meat), spaghetti squash, stir-fry vegetables) If it is too hard to become a vegetarian right away, try being a vegetarian for two to three days a week.
      If you have a lot of self discipline, you can cut out dairy. I have been a vegetarian for years, and i became a vegan for a few weeks. In the first two weeks I dropped ten pounds without counting calories or exercising or anything!
      As for exercise, I have found that one of the best exercises is swimming. It’s not as boring as walking or jogging, and it always makes me feel refreshed.
      At the gym, I think the best machine is the elliptical machine. I burn the most calories on that (10 calories a minute).
      Drink lots of water and good luck!!

    • Tapestry6 7:34 am on August 9, 2009 Permalink

      Go over to and check the message boards they have all kinds of recommendations for exercise and a food journal that does the math for you (I like that alot). At least you can talk to mature people that are serious about weight loss.
      The website is all free and I have been there since November.

    • Zoe R 5:21 am on August 11, 2009 Permalink

      Atkins is the way to go. You could lose around 15 pounds the first two weeks if you stick to it. You lose fast enough to keep you motivated and it is no sugar low carb. I will never go back to my old eating habits. Low calorie would work too. I was always hungry on that, though. Exercise needs to be a part of it either way. Good luck!

    • raddy daddy 7:53 pm on August 13, 2009 Permalink

      U bore me Go far far away now! GET OFF THE COUCH ALREADY, start walking but do something. JEZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ!

    • Nature's Way....™ 8:12 pm on August 16, 2009 Permalink

      Here’s the plan:

      Nutrition:
      drink 40-50 oz of water a day (if you need a fruity flavor add a lemon b/c it helps clean your liver.)
      eat every 3-4 hrs small portion of food like salad with slice of turkey
      No sugar nor sweets
      limit fruits in your diet b/c of sugar
      cardio 5x a week for 1 hr
      eat organic, gluten-free, and dairy-free foods

      email if u got any questions k? :)

      P.s- This is to lose or gain weight.

      ~Teen Nutritionist.~

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    How can I make my nails grow stronger not break so much?

    admin 11:48 pm on August 3, 2009 | 5 Permalink | Reply
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    starryangel05 asked:


    I recently quit biting my nails a few months ago (I bit my nails ever since I got my first teeth, so I’ve been biting for a good long time) and my nails slowly started to grow out. I have noticed as my ‘new nails’ have been developing that the white tips of my nails bend very easily if I touch them. I have also noticed that my nail beds are very short , and my nails grow crooked. I have a good collection of nail strengtheners, nail growth polishes, chip protection, and stuff like that, but they just don’t seem to want to grow long, strong and healthy like I want them to. I also don’t know how to file my nails very well. I actually just filed them an hour ago and they look uneven, and sloppy. Anyone know how to file nails well? I would appreciate ANY advice. Thanks:)

     
    • PinkLady 3:43 am on August 4, 2009 Permalink

      GNC makes a vitamin for hair and nails. It works great. I’ve also seen a similar vitamin at my local Walmart.

    • lostinmyworld888 1:36 pm on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      Doctor reccommended: Vitamin, Biotin. Its good for excellent Hair and nail growth. My doctor gave it to me when i went to him for my hairloss. They work. you can find them at any pharmacy like CVS, walgreens, Rite Aid, etc.
      How it works: You prolly have less biotin in ur body thats why ur nails chip so much. When you take this 10mg pill, your body takes how much it needs and the access comes out through your urine. Eat once daily for a few weeks, not more than month.

      Good Luck!

    • Nikkie S 3:21 am on August 9, 2009 Permalink

      drink alot of milk! HElps bones nails and teeth

    • twinkle 5:20 am on August 10, 2009 Permalink

      First you need to increase your vitamin E intake. It is responsible for hair, skin, and nails. Just take a supplement by mouth or use vitamin E oil to rub into the nail bed. As far as filing, you need to file in one direction with the harder side of the file. Then with the softer side you can buff your nails, which is good to do before you put on any of the nail hardeners.

    • Miss latin 8:41 am on August 12, 2009 Permalink

      chop purple onions and dig your nails in there it will make them hard

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    Help me with makeover advice?

    admin 10:16 am on August 3, 2009 | 2 Permalink | Reply
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    Abby asked:


    I just want a few tips on brands, and how to apply makeup/do my hair

    my face is a circular shape and i have a fringe
    wat sort of hairstyle would look good??

    and for makeup, i want a really simple look which will make my skin tone look even and glowing. i have tann skin.

    and nails, what are some good tips to keep them clean
    and what sorts of things should i buy to keep them clean healthy and strong?

    and i cant spend too much so dont give me some like 100 dollar foundation or a 50 dollar nail cutter

     
    • Melissa A 8:15 pm on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      hi a braid would be nice ( in a piggy tail position but braided )

    • Brezzy 6:02 am on August 10, 2009 Permalink

      well for your nails you should just clean them and dont wear nail polish all the time it turns your nails yellow

      for make up since you have dark skin you could go with golds and dark chocolate browns for a natural look as for eyeliner (if you wear it) you could use white to highlight the color of ur eyes or you could use brown or black to keep it simple and basic

      and just beacause the brands are expensive dosent always mean that they are the best

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    What are your views on preparing your breasts for breastfeeding?

    admin 8:09 am on August 3, 2009 | 16 Permalink | Reply
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    M asked:


    Some say not to do anything, others say to try to “toughen them up” so it doesn’t hurt as much. What do you think, and does breastfeeding really hurt as much as they say?

     
    • lil-bo-peep 9:53 am on August 3, 2009 Permalink

      breast feeding hurt me the first time. I think with my first the baby was not latching on correctly.

      I really do not think that you need to toughen them up but to each their own.

    • OhIluvEm 10:03 am on August 4, 2009 Permalink

      When I was breast feeding the only thing I would do is use a Lanisol wipe to clean them first because germ are on skin and I don’t know how some mother could just give there child there breast without wiping it clean from germs. Just like you clean bottles you have to do the same thing.

      It didnt hurt with me at all. It just depends on how hard the baby sucks and if she bits.

    • bettersee 8:43 pm on August 5, 2009 Permalink

      my mother told me to toughen them up. i later read that you werent suppose to. i did toughen mine up though. the only time breastfeeding hurts is if the latch is wrong. just use plenty of lanolin cream for the first few weeks so they dont dry out or anything. oh and thrush can cause pain too

    • NY_Attitude 1:10 am on August 7, 2009 Permalink

      I am nursing 1 and I nursed our son. With both, I only went braless at home- both for comfort and to get them used to the air. It seemed to help. I did nothing else- and personally, I’d rather be without a bra than WITH one.

      Does breastfeeding hurt? No- I will say that on week 2 for both of mine I had a sore because they were nursing so frequently and it went away.

      I do wish people would not say, “breastfeeding hurts”. If it hurts- you need to get the latch checked if you are certain it is not to do frequency of nursing. It should also be temporary.

      Is breastfeeding something you are considering? If so, here are some things to read:

      Save them and read. As well, I love this book:
      The Breastfeeding Book by Sears
      You can find that at a used bookstore as well as a regular.

      Good luck!

      EDIT: you DO NOT NEED TO WIPE YOUR BREASTS BEFORE OR AFTER A FEEDING. False. They told me that 11 years ago with our son- it took about 2 days for me to realize it was absolute crap and I stopped.

      Lansinoh is a great brand for ointment that you do not need to wipe off before nursing. I bought a tube before our baby was born last year- and I still have it. I am using it on her diaper area now because I only needed it twice- on week 2 when I was sore from nursing so much.

    • Kat 11:21 am on August 9, 2009 Permalink

      you don’t really want to mess with your nipples when pregnant as this *can* cause the uterus to contract and cause baby to want to come early.

      I relactated after 4 months pp, and I would still get cramps when pumping.

      As for breastfeeding…it depends I think. If baby gets a bad latch it can cause a crease in the areola and that turns into a blood blister looking thing that hurts. You will know if there is a bad latch. I would just stick my pinky in the corner of her mouth, release suction and pop her back on. When the latch is good, it is a pleasant tug. Does not hurt.

      My nipples are horrible now from relactating efforts, but when I was breastfeeding in the beginning they were for sure sore, but very “deal-a-ble” and did not make me want to stop. Once I got the hang of the latch in the beginning it was awesome and did not hurt during. My LC calls it “the zing feeling” It is a warm feeling…calm.

    • Jillian 6:58 am on August 10, 2009 Permalink

      no need for it- if it hurts bad- then you have a bad latch- coming from someone who had a bad latch at firts- its goignt to be slightly irritating at first but you’ll get over it- IT is NOT suppose to hurt that bad- it hurt somewhat for me at first because i would put my nipple in my son’s mouth as soona s he would open a little and he wasn’t fully latched- i eventually learned though- just go with your baby’s flow and if you have a lot of pain then you should contact a lacation consultant

      EDIT: you do not need nore shouldnt clean them before or after a feed! washing tehm can cause irritation and dryness causing tehm to crack- breastmilk is sterile and contains antibodies so all you need to do it leave a little milk on them and let them air dry

    • fluke_skywrecker 2:22 am on August 12, 2009 Permalink

      preparing? you’re kidding right?

      just go natural. it worked here.

      I am the husband and i liked how her double D’s turned into G’s! Incredible.

      Now I know what they say is true. A woman’s breasts never totally mature if they are never sucked by any babies.

      Babies finish the maturation process.

    • mayasmom1204 3:29 am on August 13, 2009 Permalink

      Yes, it does hurt as much as they say. But not for long. Only maybe a week or two, then it is better. You just have to get past that time period.

      I don’t know about toughening them up. It seems like they would just be more sore.

      Order this stuff.

      Use it EVERYTIME you nurse, as soon as your baby stops nursing. My nipples were so sore and brused and I cried everytime I needed to nurse. A friend told me to get it and it changed everything. Not sure how a cream can help what I thought was bruising, but it did.

      These are a lifesaver as well, since you are so sore and tender and some of the pads sold are kind of rough.

      Nipple Sheilds are a must. I wore them inside my bra to keep my nipples from brushing my clothing. Check the size before you buy, since they do come in different sizes.-%252820mm%252e%2529/dp/B000YQMWLU/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&s=baby-products&qid=1205635235&sr=1-6

      And join a La Leche Legue group before you have your baby. They will be able to tell you if you should toughen up your nipples, and safe ways of doing so. Plus you will make friends now that will help you after baby is born. They welcome pregnant moms to come to meetings.

      EDIT: Mabey I am a little biased about the hurting, but I had one inverted nipple caused by scar tissue that had to be ‘pulled out’ by allowing my daughter to nurse, so mabey I had a little worse experience then most.

    • Betwixt and Between 4:41 am on August 16, 2009 Permalink

      I don’t speak much on the issue of sore nipples/breasts, because I have no idea what all the hoopla is about.

      But, since you’re asking for an opinion, I can answer this accurately. I heard from a lot of people that breastfeeding would hurt, prior to my first pregnancy. The first time I nursed my first-born son, I grimaced in anticipation of terrible pain. Nothing happened. My milk came in several days later, and again, I waited to feel something horribly uncomfortable. Nothing, again. When I weaned, I was expecting to stay in bed until I made it through the engorgement/drying up process. Guess what? It didn’t hurt.

      Now I’m nursing a second child, and haven’t felt the slightest twinge of pain. Maybe I’m just lucky, but I have a suspicion that a lot of breastfeeding ‘pain’ is psychosomatic. Women expect it to hurt, so it does.

    • MDwife 11:45 pm on August 18, 2009 Permalink

      Well, if all goes well it only hurts the first few weeks until you get used to it…
      BUT I also have a strange tip to offer. 2 out of my 3 were overdue, and I was trying all kinds of things to naturally induce (didn’t work, but anyway,……) one of which is nipple stimulation, which involves rolling your nipples between your fingers and squeezing/pinching for several minutes at a time. I did this many times a day for about 2 weeks leading up to the babies, and my nipples were much less sore than they were with my first baby when we started breastfeeding… So I think it helps, and certainly can’t hurt as long as you don’t overdo it. (German midwives recommend rubbing your nipples vigorously with a wet washcloth for the last 4 weeks, too.)

    • cookie 2:59 am on August 21, 2009 Permalink

      it looks like you’re getting some great advice, so i don’t have much to add other than my vote for Lasinoh. seriously – you will be SO GLAD you got it!

    • jamesmama 10:08 am on August 24, 2009 Permalink

      You really don’t need to do anything at all to “toughen them up”. My mom told me to, but it is not necessary. My mom also told me that breastfeeding hurts.. (she breastfed all 4 of us for at least a year). It does not. As long as you have a good latch it will not hurt.
      One of my nipples was slightly inverted and that was a little uncomfortable, but it is now “pulled out” and much easier now. It’s crazy/good how your nipples can change like that.

      I recommend getting in tough with your local La Leche League leader.
      Also is a great site with so much information.
      And is a great product during the first couple weeks to keep you from drying out. It doesn’t hurt to nurse, but nobody’s nipples are used to that much action so you will need the Lansinoh.. :)

      It is hard in the beginning only because you’ll lose a lot of sleep and nobody can help you feed the baby, but it is so worth it once you get in a rhythm. It becomes *way* easier than bottle feeding.

      Ok there’s so much more I could say, but I won’t write a book since you only asked 2 questions..!

    • Roxie 9:30 pm on August 25, 2009 Permalink

      There is no point in trying to toughen them up. If your baby latches on incorrectly and you let them feed like that it is going to hurt! Get in contact with you local La Leche League and they will help you out.

    • honey 12:06 am on August 28, 2009 Permalink

      i believe that preparing your breasts for breastfeeding is good because when the baby comes you can heal quicker and any infections (god forbid) the baby might get, breastfeeding can make him feel better quicker, plus when i had my girl i got rid of my baby fat coz i breastfed

    • Amanda 8:51 am on August 30, 2009 Permalink

      I personally didn’t do anything. Took it out, latched her on, she went to town and we were good to go… But… the first week i was so sore i could barely handle to feed her… stick it out though… use lots of lanolin ointment!! it’s totally worth it after it stops hurting!

      by the 3rd week we were doing much much better. it didn’t hurt for her to eat anymore. be strong and know you’re giving your child the best!! good luck!

    • Erika S 10:15 pm on September 1, 2009 Permalink

      You don’t need to do anything to toughen up your nipples before your baby is born. In fact, nipple stimulation can bring on contractions, which you don’t want to do. Instead, just be sure to have a tube of lanolin cream packed in your hospital bags.

      Breastfeeding shouldn’t hurt too much if your baby is latched on correctly, but it can take some trial-and-error to get everything correct (and then some time to heal from the mistakes). Remember – both you and the baby will be learning here and it will be awkward and possibly uncomfortable for a while (but should only get better with time).

  • admin

    When do women who are NOT breastfeeding usually start their periods again?

    admin 2:02 am on August 3, 2009 | 11 Permalink | Reply
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    BreastFeeding
    LeoBaby81882 asked:


    I know everyone is different, but what is the AVERAGE time frame when a non-breastfeeding woman will start her period after giving birth?

     
    • Noah's Mommy 10:37 am on August 4, 2009 Permalink

      about 6-10 weeks post-partum

    • Amy B 8:45 pm on August 4, 2009 Permalink

      I started about 4 weeks after my post pregnancy bleeding stopped, and thought there was something wrong as it was v.heavy! Everyone is different though so dont panic, Ask your health visitor or Dr if you are worried but your body will sort itself!!

    • Kassie 6:42 am on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      I got mine 3 weeks after delivering..and its been out of whack since..

    • ☠AJ☠ 5:26 am on August 8, 2009 Permalink

      i started and finished by my 6 week check up so like 4-5 weeks

    • Rose.x 4:10 am on August 10, 2009 Permalink

      after you bleed straight after giving birth has finished i would say for a woman who has regular periods about 4 weeks, like a usual time between periods.

    • Danielle B 6:37 am on August 11, 2009 Permalink

      I got mine 6 weeks after I gave birth.

    • Elouise 11:09 pm on August 11, 2009 Permalink

      Three months for me…then again, I breast fed for a month, so I don’t know if that’s the reason why it didn’t start for three months…

      EDIT: Really STUPID to give me a thumbs-down because my period didn’t come for three months! Real mature..

    • Christina 6:11 am on August 14, 2009 Permalink

      I bled lightly on and off for about 6 weeks after, and then I had about a week of bleeding like a period during the 7th week. After that my periods resumed and came regularly.

    • Ian D 8:47 pm on August 15, 2009 Permalink

      i had mine 4 days after birth

    • Nermie -M's Mommy! 12:23 pm on August 17, 2009 Permalink

      I had major hemmoraging after delivery so I didn’t even really have any post partum bleeding. I wore panty liners for about a week for that just incase. I breastfed for the first week and a half. My period came back around 2 months.

    • Kameryn's Mommy 3:19 pm on August 18, 2009 Permalink

      I gave birth on April 17th and my bleeding stopped 3 wks after birth on May 7th(my day) and my regular period started on the 25th. But now it’s all crazy sometimes it comes anywhere from the 11th-15th. The plus side is they’re much lighter and shorter

  • admin

    How common is it to not have a period during breastfeeding?

    admin 12:01 pm on August 2, 2009 | 14 Permalink | Reply
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    BreastFeeding
    angeltear757 asked:


    I have a 3 month old baby. When she was about 1 month and 2 week I had my first regular period since birth. However, the next month I didn’t get it. I’ve been breastfeeding the whole time, and my husband and I have tried to be very careful, although there was one slip up right around the time that i could have ovulated following my period, but I’ve had 2 pregnancy tests around the time I should have started and both were negative. Aside from the pregnancy and births of my 4 children i’ve had a fairly regular cycle, so, how common is it to completely miss you period due to breastfeeding? I’m currently on progesterone only pills (for the last three weeks) for birth control, but the information that came with it seemed to indicate that they might make you bleed more, rather than less.

     
    • Senza 4:21 am on August 3, 2009 Permalink

      it is very common.
      doesn’t mean you can’t get pregnant though.

    • PrettyMommy 7:51 pm on August 4, 2009 Permalink

      More common than not! No period is the norm.

    • ♥some♥wanna♥know♥™ 5:38 pm on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      The act of suckling at the breast sends out hormones that can prevent eggs from being released in the human female. Hence, no period.

      More info below:

    • A hardworking American 7:09 pm on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      You normally don’t get your period while breastfeeding, although it can happen. Progesterone does make the lining of your uterus fuller/thicker, so you may have clumpy blod clot type discharge. Its perfectly normal….no need to worry.

    • Melissa 12:20 am on August 9, 2009 Permalink

      I didn’t get my period back until my daughter was starting to wean at 11 months. Those progesteone only pills really mess up your period. I would never suggest taking them.

    • Okiedokie97 9:32 am on August 12, 2009 Permalink

      First off, it’s very common.

      Although not 100%, breast feeding has long been considered a form of birth control.

      Check out these links:

    • Paris 10:10 pm on August 13, 2009 Permalink

      Well all my sister’s didn’t have their period for nearly the whole time they were breastfeeding so yeah, it’s pretty normal.

    • quirky 7:59 pm on August 14, 2009 Permalink

      I had the initial after labor period, but nothing- and I mean nothing..no cramping..or period since that first one and it has been 6 months of breastfeeding for me and my daughter. Also, I have even started cutting back on BF, and started some formula (tired of pumping at work…) and I figured cutting back on BF would start my period, but it didn’t. I guess it is just a nice break considering you don’t have time for anything but the baby!

    • Tresa R 5:59 am on August 17, 2009 Permalink

      not only did i not have a period at all when breastfeeding, it took almost 3 months after i weaned for it to start back up. I had the best birth control in the world..my husband at the time was in Iraq..so i know it wasn’t that outside sources stopped it. I don’t know if that gives you a statistic but it happened to me.

    • clementine 12:31 pm on August 17, 2009 Permalink

      in my own experience, i got my period back when my son was 9 months. he’s now a year old and my periods have been normal and he is still breastfeeding.

    • tersey562 12:47 am on August 18, 2009 Permalink

      I never stopped menstruating, but my niece didn’t have a period the entire time she breastfed (9 months – oh how I wish that were me). So it would seem that each woman is different, and just as each pregnancy is different, your reaction to breastfeeding as you get older and your body changes could be different. Talk to your ob-gyn or midwife about this situation. Good luck and God Bless.

    • Meggin M 10:45 pm on August 20, 2009 Permalink

      Your body is just trying to level out its hormones. I breastefed both of my boys, and didn’t have a pregnancy for the first 3 months, it never failed to start to 4th month with both kids. Some women don’t have a period for the entire time that they are breastfeeding.

      I would give it a few more weeks, and if you still have concerns, call your doc.

    • yaddajean 1:31 pm on August 21, 2009 Permalink

      It is actually very normal to not have a period while you are breast feeding. Don’t be alarmed

    • coltonskelton05 10:30 pm on August 24, 2009 Permalink

      Well i dont know how common it is but i breast feed my lil boy until he was 15mo. old and i did not get my 1st period after having him until he was 9mo. old!

  • admin

    Fingernail (biting) help?

    admin 7:59 am on August 2, 2009 | 5 Permalink | Reply
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    Healthy Nail Tips
    Chels_B asked:


    I’ve been biting my nails and the skin around them since I can remember (now in my senior year of highschool). I’ve tried many times to stop, but it’s so hard! I am usually quite good, and then as soon as something stressful happens, I start up again. I’ve been chewing a lot of gum though. That distracts me from biting.

    Well, for Lent, I have given up biting my nails. I’m hoping I’ll be able to continue after the 40 days too. =P

    I have a feeling someone will suggest that bitter thing to put on fingernails to stop biting them, but, I can never seem to find that stuff in the drugstore anymore, and last time my mother tried to break me of the habit, I got used to the taste and bit anyway. SO I’m just gonna have to rely on gum and willpower! =P

    Anyway, I’m wondering what things I can do to make my nails grow faster, and make them healthy and strong.

    I’ve been trying to push my cuticles back (they were so grown out, I think it will take some time before I can get them back all the way) and I’ve been moisturizing my hands.

    Any other tips/tricks? Inexpensive home remedies would be great. I don’t have money to spend on expensive nail products right now.

    Oh, I also plan to go for a manicure after Lent, if I actually can stop biting my nails! So hopefully that will make them look good too. =)

    Thank you!

     
    • Zoe N 2:05 am on August 5, 2009 Permalink

      I like No Bite Nail Polish from Sally’s Beauty Supply. It also helps if I get a nice manicure.

    • princess p 5:12 am on August 6, 2009 Permalink

      WHEN YOU FEEL THE NEED TO BITE UR NAILS, CHEW GUM

    • Crayola 5:36 am on August 9, 2009 Permalink

      put something that you hate the smell and taste of on your nails and the skin part.

      like alchohol, a lotion that you wouldn’t wanna taste.
      something like that

    • Maya G 10:41 am on August 11, 2009 Permalink

      I think at you must figure another way to get rid of stress than hewing gum. Try to find the positive in the situation and take slow deep breaths.

    • simple_stix 3:42 pm on August 14, 2009 Permalink

      Soak your finger tips in cider vinigar. FIrst this will sting kind of punishing yourself for biting them in the first place. Second just putting them near your nose will be a turn off.

      Start using a vitamin e infused cuticle oil to help soften your cuticles. Get your nails healthy from the beds out. It will take a while but the results are dramatic.

      Make a habit out of taking care of your hands and feet. They will thank you later!

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